Anonymous asked: Youll find someone better then her. Shes younger than you right?? I know that your a great guy and that you really care about people. I guarantee that 1 day she will be hurt by the next person shes with and she will wish she was back with you. but dont focus on that day. let her learn from her mistakes, and you lead your life. you will come on top. trust me... I made the same mistake that shes probably making right now... I just wanted something better than what I have. youll come out on top.
I don’t know…
I really care about her. I want her to be happy. I guess I’ve been telling myself that I CAN make her happy, just if I clean up my act. Maybe she just doesnt like me. I’m not that attractive of a guy, and I have my quirks. I know that I’m willing to bring out the “loving’ type of girl she was the first few months we dated. But, maybe that just isn’t her.
I’m starting to think maybe she isn’t really the girl that she’s been, and maybe she just liked me and decided to do the things and be into the things I’m into just so that I’d like her. (i.e liking the Grateful Dead, Counting Crows, Avett Brothers, and stuff.) I could very well be wrong… I don’t know. I know that she was the person that she was when I started dating her, and I really liked that girl too.
And she isn’t making a mistake in her mind. And I have to accept that she thinks this is what’s best for her. She said she was unhappy with me. I had some shit going on that I just literally fixed like yesterday, that was really hurting her… But she’s scarred from that.
She’ll find a guy or a girl that will treat her as well as I did, and they’ll be more attractive than I, and they’ll stay together for much longer.
She said I’m just not someone she likes.
I’d be Okay with that, if I still didn’t have that “crush” feeling towards her.
I’m so emotionally messed up because of all the things I’ve gone through, that I really appreciated this being the constant in my life.
There will be other girls, I guess………But I wish me and her worked out.
